22 year old dating 38 year old

Peeps answered Friday December 19 , We started dating when I was He has already gone through what I will go through with growing up.

The thing is, he can steer me in the right direction. If I listen to him, he can definately help me make right choices and avoid incidents that happened to him when he went through it years ago. He knows how to effectively communicate and get his thoughts and ideas through.

Maturity level is high for older men. They have a better idea of how to treat a lady usually my man opens doors for me, helps me out to the vehicle, carries the heavy things up to his house, buys me dinner, takes me out to movies, etc etc. The fact of the matter is there will always be someone out there, older or younger, that will try to manipulate you.

This is why you have to have firm beliefs and standards. Put your foot down for what you believe. More men in their early twenties are going out to the clubs, getting wasted, picking up random strange women to sleep with, and not caring about other human beings in general.

If a man cannot put their entire selves into a relationship with you or anyone else then how can you expect to rely on them in difficult times? You see, guys in their early 20s are new to this adult things and get frightened easily, whereas a man in his 30s or 40s already KNOWS if he can overcome a particular hurdle or not.

The trick is to keep your eyes and ears peeled out for these sorts of people. If a guy is going out to the bar and getting smashed every weekend then expect him to be making poor choices, especially in the sex department.

A man in his late 30s will drink and have a good time on the weekend. Not in a crowd. Maybe a buddy or two around. Not enough alcohol to vomit and have a terrible hang-over. A man in his early-to-mid 20s will drink and have a good time on the weekend. Happily drunken in a crowd of strangers. Enough to get completely wasted so that the following days will be completely forgotten, including the women he picked up the first night. He repeats this same thing every weekend, forcing his body to go through hell.

Older men know what they want and how to get it, for the most part. Younger men have an idea of what they want and are still testing the waters. All guys see you as young and inexperienced. You have to have morals set. You have to know what you want. You have to not put yourself into bad situations and play everything as safely as possible.

Be prepared for an older man to start showing up with gray hair or begin balding mine is bald and has a touch of gray. Be prepared for him to go through some health problems as he ages because they say the 20s are the healthiest time for us all. Be prepared for him to either want children very much or to not want them at all, ever. By this point in life, the man has pretty much made up his mind if he wants any or more or not. I hope things go well with you and you find out what you truly want in life.

If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask me! Age is not just a number: Hey age is just a number You are old enough to make your own decisions in the situation. It is indeed a big age gap. But age is just a number. If the two of you click than why not? My 22 year old friend married a 40 year old, and they are happy and successful.

On the other hand, my 21 year old friend dated a 37 year old with kids, and they did nothing but fight until he eventually dumped her. So really, it depends on the people, especially the maturity of the younger. Good luck and much love! There is nothing much to it. If you like him, so be it no matter what the age gap is.

I think at 21 the girl should be able to make her own adult decision on that.


37 year old dating a 22 year old: not inherently creepy, but going to trigger "keep an eye on this" flags -- either my 37 year old friend is way more immature than I've previously seen and this is a very mature 22 year old, or dude is way creepier than I was aware of. I had a friend my senor year who was 18, she started dating a 35 year old and now they are happily married with a 2 year old little boy! She is 22 and he is 39 and I still cant get my head wrapped around it, but they are happy so thats all that matters.

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